He is making it obvious that he has no intentions this time of coming back. He took himself off the car ins. last week and did not tell me.
He flew his sister down this weekend and got upset with d when she did not want to hang out with them on Sat. She was going to homecoming and well.... he didn't tell her the plans until Fri. She had an accident on Fri night and did not call me she called her father... the hero... then came home 5 hrs later and said..
"i had an accident" now wait... you didn't call me? I was fit to be tied. So she called daddy and told him... "see I told you se would be mad" I give up no matter what I do or say it is not right for that child. Daddy is the hero all the time.
I told him that I did not need his help with dealing with the ins. comp. and he got mad that I was making a claim. Well yes it is a lot of damage and the other person left the scene and .... oh wait... He called the person who hit her and told her he would pay for the damage. THE MAN IS INSANE
he showed up on Sat. with his sister and then told me to say hello to her. No hello no nothing... walked up to me and told me to say hello. Like as if I wouldn't?
he has lost it totally. New jacket not his usual style so he is back in replay big time I think.
He refuses to deal with the paperwork for the cobra ins. so I am having my L rewrite the settlement and increase the alimony to cover it and I will pay the policy. His work will let him take it out pretax but I do not want him doing it. I want it all my doing and he has no part of it.
The whole process of changing car titles and bills and the cell phone and cable is time consuming and emotionally draining. The cell and cable won't change it without him going in person with me.
I keep telling myself I will be just fine and that right now until I get on my feet again I only need his money. he is useless to me for his in not there emotionally for himself or his kids.
It is warm here today and I have a trailor load of bricks to unload and plants to dig.
just need something positive to happen in my life right now. the negative and bad seems to be taking over.
m24 yrs h 50 me 47 s 21 s 17 left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06 still gone.............
