Originally Posted By: mcojh


If you are ready to have her file, have you considered filing? If she won't pull the trigger, how long will you wait and suffer?


mc -

I will not file, if only for the principle. I have told her that the message that I deliver regaridng the divorce to the kids will be, "Mom is not happy, and she thinks she will be happy if she divorces me." I can't say that if I initiate the action.

I am OK. It's not bad at home. It's not good, either. The only person suffering seems to be her. She is miserable, because her true love lives 350 miles away and she is stuck with a louse like me... Too bad...


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9