Cat,
I've found your topic/thread whatever it's called. I've got a lot of reading to do to catch up. Just a quick comment...

What your H said about it not being a choice between you and OW I think is true for all sitches like this. It really isn't about the OW. It really is something inside the WAS, something they have to go through and figure out. In a way, it's not about you, or me either. It's all about them.

I hope you sleep better. Sleep is so important

M45, W45,S15, D10,
Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07
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