I do understand that I cannot control whatever happens but after being blindsided with everything I would at least like to have an idea that it is coming if it were to.
But H definately shows he wants to be with me so I am trying to believe that it is genuine. We bought an RV over the weekend and he is talking about camping and doing things to the RV and such so I think that is a good sign.
Another thing is....Friday the ex bestfriend told her H another lie about the A and I knew the truth so I decided to go ahead and come clean with what I knew to be the truth. He was not happy about it at all and confronted her on it. She tried to lie about it some more but he knew better.
So he was on his way walking out the door and she decided to start talking. He says they are still going to try to work on things but that she said she is done with me. That is fine with me!
I feel a whole lot better now that he knows the full story and maybe she will think twice before doing this to someone else.