I am so sorry you had to hear that. Did she say what she did want from a marriage? She should be thankful for your marriage, you have two beautiful children from it. She is just being spiteful and I am sorry. Let her be for now, still compliment her, but don't do anything husbandly for a couple of days...let her see what life would be like without you taking care of her. Like I said in an earlier message to you, right now you are there and she knows it, and it is a comfort/sense of security in the back of her mind (even though she thinks she doesn't want you there), once you aren't there, she will realize how much she depended on you. I was that way with my 2nd H, even though he was abusive, when he was gone I saw how much he took cafe of for me. That comfort was gone.

Keep the faith- I am praying for you!!!

B


ME 34
H 33
Married 02/11/2006
1st bomb- 06/05/2006
final 01/07/2008