You have indicated that you have posted on different forums here and about the lack of responses.
I am reminded about something Charlyne and Bob have written over and over again about standing. They said that we should not be seeking so many answers from a variety of sources. Seek God first, let HIM do the work, and you be still and ask God to help you have the patience to get through this time in your life.
Yes, you will have friends who support you but if you are willing to put God first and rely on HIM as opposed to the many answers one may or may not be getting on a forum, then I will bet you will see some results.
Be still for awhile and allow/rely on God to work on your husband. Remember there is so much we do not see as God does work behind the scenes.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19