BT, you'll get there, it'll take time. One of the challenges is you will go through cycles where you feel all the old feelings good and bad. For me I've just went through a two week cycle where all the old hurt and anger resurfaced. It came about from comments my wife made after we signed the sep agreement. It peaked yesterday when she came into church and asked to sit next to me. I wanted nothing to do with her because all that came of any interaction was a renewed thrust of these emotions. But finally I've been able to break it. Hopefully without too much damage because she had picked up on this and has gotten distant and very guarded.
So realize it comes and goes, how you manage it is the key.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
