It makes sense for her to have a key in the event something should come up with D. I would give it a week or two and see if she asks for her key back. Your W did make mention before you moved in that your new place was going to be nicer than her place. Maybe she is trying to help you fix it up to her taste just in case. Who knows, just me always trying to read between the lines.
My W is so confusing right now. Yesterday she was really cranky most of the day, because D didn't sleep much, so I just worked on moving more stuff into my house - I ended up going over to W's halfway through the day to check on her and D (they were sleeping when I left), but she pretty much bit my head off when I asked if they were doing okay.
I went back later to pick up some things and D was going crazy - I asked W if she wanted to get something for dinner, since she hadn't left the house all day. I wasn't expecting much, but she said she'd like to go out - We had a really good time together, and went out and did some shopping for both of us afterwards with D. W talked a lot the whole time - Mostly about how she wasn't feeling good, but she took a couple of opportunities to really bitch about OM. Obviously still a lot of anger going there. We bought loads of painting and decorating supplies for my house, and W seems pretty intent on doing a lot of work over there.
I ended up staying with her again last night, which actually worked out pretty well - We talked until it was pretty late while she worked on some craft stuff. First time in a LONG while I've not seen her sit on her laptop all night. We went to bed together - Talked about how I should decorate the house and what furniture I need to get. W said she'd help me pick stuff out and figure out what looks right in the house.
We've been talking on IM all morning - W invited herself over to my house tonight for dinner, so we can do some work there together and get stuff situated. I'll probably run to get her a set of keys made when I pick up D. Tomorrow I have to watch D while W goes to her C appt, but I'm not sure if I'm going to her house, or D is coming to mine. The rest of the week and the weekend I have D, so we'll see if W makes plans to come over and do things with me. W also offered to give me some food for lunch at work (she made meatloaf this weekend).
I have no clue if I'm doing the right things or not anymore - Sometimes I think I'm doing the wrong thing (e.g. asking her out for dinner), and it turns out to be a good for us. Sometimes I do what I think is the 'right thing', giving her space and independence, and she gets mad because I'm not helping her.
