Yeah, I didn't say anything about the 10 year old thing. And H has always insisted he hasn't cheated until now, so I don't know why he would change his story now, and don't think I want to hear that anyway if it is true.
Last night after spending 3 hours with the OW, he came home to watch the Superbowl. I spent an hour or so cleaning and paying bills, and then sat down for 20 minutes to watch the last part of the Super Bowl with H. He very cleverly (he thought) put a blanket down so he could text her without me seeing, but of course his Blackberry was going off every minute (buzz, buzz) with her texts. He must think I'm an idiot! After a few minutes of this I figured this out and was upset of course, yet again he is a jerk about this same issue; I think it's been 2 months now at least, and I left saying I was going to bed.
Then halfway there, I said no I don't think I'm going to let this slide again. I went back and said loudly, "Thanks for your kindness and courtesy and not emailing your OW in front of me!" Oh, but that's right, You're not a gentleman so you do email her in front of me!" "Do you think I deserve to be treated like **it because you are treating me like **it!" and I stormed out and heard him saying no, no as I slammed the door and went to bed. He came into my room and said "I apologize" 10 minutes later (after he finished texting the OW I'm sure) to which I said nothing b/c I'm sure he'll keep doing it! and he left. (At this point I am still so mad at him, I don't think I want to see him for a long time.)
Tonight is the audition night for the play the kids and I are trying out for, and I am just hoping I can get a part, even a small one, not like most people I imagine, but so I can spend 6 weeks away from my crazy, jerky husband, and if I don't get a part, will try to volunteer for a behind-the-scenes-job, which will keep me still probably busy on the weekends and when the play begins and I will try to get as involved as possible.
I always read those chapters in the DB and DR books and said I would never be one of those spouses that wouldn't want to make the marriage work if the cheating spouse wanted to, but now I can see how that could happen!!!Karen43
