Thanks Dh and NA,

Yea you're right.

When this all started we both said that we would keep this peaceful and do as much as we could without the lawyers

He has gone behind my back and done his financial statement with his lawyer anyway

He is putting in the financial statement things that don't make sense. (his monthly grooming bill $100? He shaves his head!,This among other things don't make sense at all!)

I still would like to do this out of the lawyers hands, how do I get alimony without sending in my financial statement?

I know how to divide up things but how do I do the alimony part without putting in to the lawyer financial details?

Can anyone help me please???

I want this to be as amicable as possible?

E


"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......