Sox, How are you trying to rebalance your life? Why are you working seven days a week?
My W (alias Madame CL) was a terror to live with when she worked six days a week. We have her down to a PT job. She is expected to choose very carefully her next job.
You can't piece together a M from a state of fatigue.
I do understand your need for order and tidyness in the home. My W says that a clean home is essential since the rest of her life is in flux. I do my part to help keep it clean, otherwise she's a terror to live with.
I think you're frustrated and disappointed that your piecing efforts have not been more successful.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."