Good comments, let me clarify. I don't think she is thinking clearly and knowing what she is leaving behind. She is so back and forth. One poster said that when they are like this you must creat FUD and make them realize. This is step one. After this I want her to trust me as a good sole and friend and then move on from there.
Therapist- she likes him but does not know how he is going to bring that "Feeling Back" that she has lost. How he is going to help her bring down the wall. She is much calmer now that she has returned fro the trip but still has a lot of anger. She can be very sweat at times and at others she is trying to push my buttons so I decide to move out. I am not moving out. My gut says that she is not in a hurry just because of the OM. She just needs space. She did ask for my purmision to start cantacting him again. I am really hurting today.
