Loving a WAS isn't easy

[mymonkeybug]

Oh just had to share something I take as a sign from above....

I was on the rejoiceministries website and they stated a very good verse from the bible to read about standing for your marriage is in Daniel 10. Well quite the coincidence given that my H's name is Daniel. Just had to share as I belive in things happening for a reason and signs like that.

Another sign...one I am ashamed to admit though but will...

I immediately joined match.com after H left out of complete fear of being alone since we have been together since 16. I have contacted nearly 15 men there and they have either not responded at all or responded with a "thanks but we are not a good match." That was a sign also for me to accept and learn how to be alone for a time and not to look to others of the opposite sex for comfort and companionship as that will only lead to trouble.

So pleas take that last confession as a learning tool for yourself, whoever is reading this...do not seek comfort in the opposite sex unless it is loving family. Seek your comfort in same sex friends, the bible, books, television, your children certainly, etc...