Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #11

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W called me this morning as soon as she got to work. Apperently she sat and talked to the kids last night. First she tells me that I should take the kids home more for dinner because they don't like going out as much as we do (controlling?). Then she tells me that D5 was telling her again last night that "She wants Mommy and Daddy to live together again". Then she says "D5 tells me that she tells you this and you say you do to" I just kinda gave a uh-huh to this. She then says "You know if you feel like that or not you shouldn't say that to the kids. It's not good for them" She caught me off guard with all of this and I didn't really know how to resond. All I said in reply was "ok". She then went on to how the kids want soup for lunches. The whole thing was very nice and friendly. There was no spew. It was strange.

I don't know what to think after that. On the one hand, it shows me that she is not having regrets at this point and is not thinking of returning. On the other hand, I have been worried for a long time that she thinks I am ok with this whole thing because I am always very nice to her. Now I know that she knows I'm not.