Thanks for thinking that Jenny. I try my best. I wish my W could see that and want to be with me again. Maybe someday...

I am super grateful for my neighbor and was really surprised that my W had the idea to call her. I didn't think that she would want me around so I didn't plan on staying long. I also took a bit of a risk in that I didn't call her before I stopped over. I just showed up and half expected her not to let me in the door. One of the complaints that she had about me was that I'm spontaneous though, so I have to show her that I can be. Although, I had this planned a couple days in advance, but she doesn't need to know that. \:\)

I'm pretty sure that her primary LL is Words of Affirmation, and I think that her secondary LL is Acts of Service. I need to read the book again though. She does like it when I get things for her or do something special, that could be her secondary too. It's hard to figure out, so maybe I should just do them all. \:D I do a lot of little things for her that I probably haven't posted about.

Originally Posted By: transformer
you know, this might sound weird, but sometimes I think it's really fun to take care of your partner when they are sick.
It doesn't sound weird to me. I was really glad to be able to be there for her. I just wanted to make her as comfortable as possible and she must have been as she fell asleep in my arms.

Thanks for you input!
B


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

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