Just read some of your sitch. THIS IS INSANE... My W has NEVER talked or made referance to OM in front of me.... I totaly would go balistic..... And to hand me the phone to talk to the OM about MY DAUGHER...<<<<<<WTF>>>>>>... You are much stronger than I my friend..... the only thing I can tel ya is Try not to make it about you..... Don't think she is talking to Om to upset you. this is hard. you need to take on the though process of "what ever"......Hope this helps buddy..remeber that when she said something and you take it personaly It changes your whole PMA. this changes her PMA and it becomes a circle of bad / sad feelings..
Dr H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know