It is a struggle everyday. We however have each other and this group to come to to post and vent and share stories and experiences. Just remember...what do our WAS's have? They probably don't have the understanding supportt group we have. Just a friend or 2 that really can't relate.
I have read in a Midlife Crisis book I have pertaining to men that you can't believe any of what they are telling you while in MLC and only half of what you see. The same probably holds true for the women in MLC also. They are all so confused that they probably have a hard time believeing themselves too.
I wish I had the money sometimes to afford some DB coaching but don't. I just see a local therapist who knows my course of action as far DB'ing and standing for my marriage and she is supportive of that. My H refuses any therapy because, "There is nothing wrong and I don't need some shrink giving me happy pills so I come home." Poor guy is so lonely and confused but I realize he has choosen to take this journey alone.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
