Reclaiming myself and my life

[saffie]

Ok, I'll stop asking about you. I asked the 'anger' question as I know that my H can on the surface appear Ok and 'nice' and friendly whilst underneath there's a laod of 'snarkiness' going on that affects the way I behave and our interactions.

I feel I can't really comment on your W as I don't feel we get a rounded picture and your previous post saying you only put certain information on the boards seems to back that up. Anyways, you can't control her and you have said several times your M is pretty much over - so why bother asking for insight on your W? Are you still hoping to keep your M together?

Glad you have such good supporters off the boards. I only know Theo out of your list but I know he is a great person, so I expect the rest are too.

I am pleased you have turned 'yourself' around so quickly but have to admit that I am sceptical that you have made permanent life changing moves that are going to keep you on a long term even keel so quickly - but hey - I don't know you and you are seemingly strong willed.

I wish you and your W well.