Zuzu, he is hurting and you cannot fix it. He is the only one who can. You can support whatever solution he comes up with, but you can't fix how he feels or how he sees his life. There are career counselors and life coaches and people who can help, but that's not your job.
I adamantly agree with Lillieperl. He is the only one that can seek a resolution. In fact, I think jumping up and going crazy to try and "fix" this problem would be a detriment. My suggestion would be to talk to him, but sit back and let him take the next move.
Originally Posted By: Lillieperl
BTW Did you or did you not [blank] Charlie?
If he asked the question, then the damage is done regardless of the response
By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates
