I will let you know what I think of the books when I get them. I did read some of the sample pages online and was thinking it would be good to have them. Thank you for suggesting them.
I will download the other books Monday as I am about to fall asleep here at my computer. LOL.
The boys are splitting time between the W and me. She moved out of the family home and into an apartment she shares with a friend (male). The boys stay with her some and here at home some. I asked her if she didn't believe that since we were turning the family so upside down that maybe it would be a good idea for us to try to keep their daily routine more in tact. (ie: sleeping in their own bed, eating breakfast at home, and going to school the same way they did before mom and dad started having problems). At first W resisted, but I think she may soften to the idea. We will talk to the boys about it tomorrow.
I have to tell you that I have unconditional love for both my kids and my W. It hurts me to see any of them in pain. I just hope that all the work I have done to this point, and the efforts I plan to continue won't be in vain. I know that I will benefit as a result of the work on me, but I really want this family to work. Keep your fingers crossed for me and feel free to drop me into any prayers that may have some extra space.
Good night and God bless you.
-B
Me-45 W-34 T-5 M-3 1/2 s-10 s-12 ILYBNILWY 12/26/07 Sleeping away from home at friend's house(because she says she can't get any sleep otherwise) 1/14/08 1/25/08 We tell kids she is moving out