W less angry with me, but not ready for piecing

[Lanzo]

Had more R talk today with W.

We talked a lot but didn't go too deep into anything. But I told her if we keep talking we will eventually have to discuss some difficult subjects but that can come later.

Here are some headline points from todays chat.

W thinking I'm spending too much time on the computer now and I should spend more time with her in the evenings. (Wow)
I actually told her a little bit about this site but not the full DB process.

What does she really want ?, she wants us to be a family and to do family things all of the time.

She thinks I'm still walking on eggshells around her, and I should relax.

She likes the way I've smartened myself up, she said the Lanzo she met was always smart and well groomed. I told her one of the things I learnt from this site was to look at myself and discover the man she first met. (she liked that).

She told me MIL has commented that W looking happier.

Oh, and she wants me to print off a photograph of us to have on her desk at work.

We've agreed to continue talking.

I try to hold back in these talks and let W talk but she always wants to hear what I have to say so I'm a little bit guarded, but I hope she'll open up more as she becomes more relaxed.

Lanzo