LS, Another suggestion I have for you is to write out all of your questions prior to meeting with attorney. That way you will have plenty of time to think about what you need to know and won't get in there and forget everything. Perhaps you can have a copy for the attorney and one for you to write the answers down on. I think by not telling her that you are going to the attorney you will have time to digest everything you were told and decide how you want to handle the situation. When you do talk to your wife you will be calmer and much more informed about your rights. You can share with her then that you visited with attorney if you feel like it.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
