Hi dr LH

In your journaling post it seems like you are in a good place with yourself. Great gal mud puddles, shop, mils... And great pma "I am good either way". It sure seems like you're doing things the right way or the best you can. Keep up the great work!

Comparing this to my sitch i feel like i havnt detached like you and mark were able to. Now its like she resents me for it.

I really look up to you and many many others on this board.

Light Switch


Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt