Oh...I'm so excited for you. You are right. Wait til you meet Michele in person. There is no way it will solidify his decision to D. I will be praying for you....but this truly is amazing.
In my situation...
If he would have just been decent at all I would have kept stayed. After I had learned about DB, there would have been things I could have done to make the situation much better. I was pretty classic. I shut up, started working on myself, I wasn't consciously preparing to leave, if I had, I would have saved money.
But I did start exercising, losing weight, started a direct selling business, got my confidence up, decided to go back to school (hadn't made actual plans). I thought it would make him happier. He got meaner.
It took being with someone who wasn't like that for me to see the actions of MINE that weren't 'working'. When we broke up, I fell apart, and found Michele. YEAH. Peace of mind.
I'm not the most perfect DBer. I am the most grateful for DB.
I have so much hope for you!
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
