Originally Posted By: Lanzo 01/20/08
I've had a long think about this and this is what I've come up with, your W sees your changes, your new upbeat relaxed attitude, but what she doesn't see is you moving on. So at the moment she can chat all kinds of sh*t to you, but at the end of the day she still knows you will be there to take it. So to her you're still a sounding board, a doormat or a punch bag (ouch).

Originally Posted By: Lanzo 01/23/08
Related to the above and something I've mentioned before, W doesn't see you moving on, maybe you need to give her that impression for things to change.

Busy weekend ... Saturday I took S7 to a play date at his classmate's house where I had lunch and a long visit. Sunday invited my friend's wife's sister to dinner and my kid's were there - cooked good food, had pleasant conversation and a nice evening - want to reassure everyone my intentions remain as chaste as ever. Awaiting results of these sharp 180s. W's already mad as hell on the insurance.


Me-48, W-38
M14, D11, S7
W filed D 01/07
W had to move out 06/07
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