Tostada Nearing the Hot Oil

[BAW]

Hi Tostada-

I just read your current updates, and I am glad that I could be of some help. Don't give up you can win her back if that is what you want...remember "nothing worth having comes easy."

If ur W is anything like me, her coldness that has been growing every day is her putting up a wall so she doesn't show you how much she is hurting. She probably feels like she has taken everything so far and her "friends" are probably behind her egging her on to keep going, that she most likely feels that she can't do anything else. She is turning off her feelings because it is easier to deal with what is going on..it is her own way of "as if".

I don't know what to tell you about the 5th of Vodka she took. She is starting to get distructive, and that is what happens when you feel like your entire life is falling apart. It is her escape from her reality right now.


Keep the faith, she will snap out of this....I am sorry I can't tell you when. I pray that she does soon so everything that has been destroyed in your relationship and your family can be restored.

B-