You do sound upbeat and forward looking. That is truly wonderful, and I am so glad for you.
It may be that in some of our cases the WAS becomes so toxically self-focused and so insistent on fixing the blame for their life's grievances on us, the LBS (whether that happens to be true or not) that in reality they actually become the impediment to our happiness instead. So should the WAS achieve there goal of ousting the LBS from their lives, we are the ones who really benefit.
