Enjoying life and getting on with things. Who knows what may happen in the future???
I have also decided to sell the house (not buy W out) and buy something more in suiting to my new "bachelor" lifestyle (with consideration to DD's stay overs of course). Something right in the "guts" of the city (North Sydney).
Still DBing for my own sake.........and getting better at it with each day. Driving W nuts with how civil and normal things are..........I think she misses the conflict because without it she realises that I have moved on and have no emotional attachment to her anymore.
To Husband and NCB, it's not as scary as I thought After acceptance, you are free to look forward to the next chapter of your life. Surrounding yourself with fabulous friends and wonderful family (as well as a great job), you start seeing the "light" at the end of the tunnel. Also, I am living my life the way I always wanted, without the restrictions of W, but with the bonus of already having a wonderful DD in my life.
The hardest part is still living in the same house. So I am looking forward to closure in that regard.