he hasn't brought up the subject of divorce for over a month. He doesn't bring up the subject. Should I? =================================== Nope, don't do it, way too early! THere must be a huge chunk of your time when you believe this is hopeless. It still isn't, youve' been separated mere weeks. Unless you know 100% for sure you want a D, don't bring it up.
Well, if you'll be working and wont' see him much, that right there is almost like going dark.
He just wants everyone to be happy, and avoid anything that reminds him that we are married. ============================================== Awww, you've been learning grasshopper. Yes, in his little twisted world, you are fine, he is fine, all is ok, he has done no damage, he isnt' hurting anyone. I'd love to know wth is him mom thinking letting him get off the hook like this! that really makes me mad.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.