I think this is what H needed to hear in order to move forward with me...he needed to know he hadn't screwed up her life too much... =========================================
That's pretty much teh core of the reason my H kept contact with ow, she unloaded the mother of all guilt trips and he recognized she manipulated him 'cause "she can/knows how to". He just didn't want to leave her until he knew she was ok, just as imL said, to appease his concience more than about still wanting to be with her, he didnt' want to leave as the "bad guy" in her eyes.
H continues to be good, at home and helping out. =================================== yey! I'm glad to hear that, that sounds like progress to me
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
