Yes the 2 books I linked to on amazon are the 2 most important books. There is SO much scriptural advice and such wisdom in those books.
They are just in a different league than any other material I have found.
DB is wonderful life material. But Erin's books are so geared to a God-based marriage restoration blueprint.
I mean it literally...those resources CHANGED MY LIFE.
I found Erin a bit after DB. And in tandem they both offered valuable fabulous life strategies.
Long ago, Erin used to personally answer her emails -- and I still treasure the one she wrote me -- after I wrote her about my disastrous run in with my xH.
Her words turned my life around...
I truly think that once you read her books you will truly GET everything that is happening. You will understand it all -- and thus be able to relax and to trust in God's plan -- and His timing -- without such impatience and frustration.
They certainly turned my whole thought pattern around. Her books led me to the path of forgiveness and understanding. It was after finding her site that I stopped planting seeds of anger -- and instead started to plant seeds of loving kindness that can lead to restoration.
What has happened since is like night and day.
I saw healing MIRACLES in both my son's relationship with his dad and my relationship with my xH.
Erin has a gift. Her examples are so honest and down to earth -- it just makes it all so clear. I do think you should get the books. They are not a repetition of other source material.
Take a look and see what you think. Her old site was fabulous -- 100% devoted to marriage restoration FOR WOMEN. This new site has a broader message. See if you can still access some of the old site.
I hope her new site will still be a valuable place to visit.