Walk Away wife

[Dom R]

I am trying to fill her with fear, uncertianty and doubt about what she is about to do and go from there. We just need to communicate better, become close friends again, start dating and then get romantic.

Those two sentances are mutually conflicting.
You cant "fill her with f.u.d." AND be a close friend. they dont mesh well together. i doubt she's going to want to be arond someone who makes her feel insecure about herself?

We have therapy on Tuesday but she dose not feel like that is going to bring the feeling back.

"results" aside.. how does she get alongn with the therapist?

if she doesnt "click" with the therapist, then i think you need to stop going with her. immediately. becuase it will drain her of any remaining desire to work on your marriage.

dont try to force her to do something that she isnt in wholehearted agreement about doing. it will backfire.

She wants to seperate soon, talking to lawyer this week about moving out. I don't know what the hurry is, maybe OM in waiting.

sounds likely.