Thanks for the confirmation. I feel that I am not being patient and considerate enough for him to take his time to end the contact. H did not say that he is heartless by leaving OW. He did say he did a terrible thing to her. He also said he made a mistake by having the A. I just don't know if I need to have more patience to wait for OW to fade or leave. My mind is just so confused at times. I guess it just means that I need to be more detached and GAL. I did not tell H that he is heartless by ending it with OW. In fact, I have told me multiple times that he is doing a better thing for her to let her move on. It's OW who's clinging on to H with all she can do and H is not strong enough to "just say no".
H continues to be good, at home and helping out. There seems to be little steps happening. H was logging on to his email and I walked out saying "well, I will go do something else now you are checking your email." He told me I can of course look at his emails. May be signs that the emails have stopped? I dont' know. I didn't check.
