w8ing Im sorry about your weekends being hard without kids I am lucky My H doesnt take them every other weekend He just visits them every weekend for a few hours a day and leaves them Im glad they are always with me and I get little breaks on weekends..it works out for now as H doesnt have his own apartment to let them sleep..he supposedly rents a room from, a friend and truthfully H propably doesnt want them all weekend..it takes from his playtime
I know my M wasnt really good for a long time either My H always worked always i know we shared some good times too I think that if any spouses return after MLC the M has a chance to start over I reread MLC in DR and she said it today the H needs to make changes too if he decides to recommitt to M so The M will not be the same as before hopefully so much better peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow