w8ing
Im sorry about your weekends being hard without kids
I am lucky
My H doesnt take them every other weekend
He just visits them every weekend for a few hours a day and leaves them
Im glad they are always with me and I get little breaks on weekends..it works out for now as H doesnt have his own apartment to let them sleep..he supposedly rents a room from, a friend and truthfully H propably doesnt want them all weekend..it takes from his playtime


I know my M wasnt really good for a long time either
My H always worked always
i know we shared some good times too
I think that if any spouses return after MLC the M has a chance to start over
I reread MLC in DR and she said it today
the H needs to make changes too if he decides to recommitt to M
so
The M will not be the same as before
hopefully so much better
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow