the warm weather resort was more of a "what if" than an invite. i can't really figure it out. W is under tremendous pressure....this is getting pretty rough

1) her brother has a serious gambling problem (got a call from MIL)
2) her oldest daughter got layed off.
3) her youngest is on meds (depression)
4) her dad is struggling with his wife (she had an acv a few months ago)

I already mentionned the anniversary of her sister's death coming up.

Then you have me.......

I really need to be strong and get my act together.

By the way earlier today she again repeated that regardless of what happens between us she needs me to be there for her. On the half glass full side, i am still in the picture, on the half glass empty the regardless of what happens still has negative connotations..