Thx for cutting to the chase. I have a way of starting in that direction and then deviating from facing facts/reality. So feel free to be plenty blunt as it forces me to take a solid look at the nuts and bolts of my sitch.
My W and I are pretty well on amicable terms at this time but that surely was just about never the case when we were together.
In a nutshell my W has certain problems as do I and when we spend time in each others presence the mix was rather toxic. The problems she has identified of mine:
1)overcontrolling 2)deficient in emotional support 3)and the catchall . . .I cause her to be unhappy & enormously stressed
I have gotten a lot fm DB and had started to read DR and I am looking fwd to acquiring a copy of it so I can finish it and have the full arsenal of what will work best for my sitch.
Even though as I said I do sometimes deviate from facing the music I do not recall posters asking for the 'reasons why my wife walked' and me not attempting answer that. So I am not sure what you mean. Maybe you could identify what you meant by that to help me.
Jesus draw me closer to you. Shepherd me one step closer to heaven.
