No real advice at the moment. Just wanted you to know I am thinking about you. Squeeze that doggie for me, I wish I had one. I used to cry into my dog's fur when I was thinking about H and OW (this was before I found out for sure but when I knew in my heart). But she lived w/us 9 months and kept being aggressive w/our kids and running away so we adopted her out to a "rescue league" couple 8 days after I found OW and H together in the hotel. Double whammy, lose my H (at least temporarily) and my dog. Enough about me. The point was, love on that pup and you will have to feel a little bit better.....