Wow, I am jealous of the warm weather resort invite. Sounds like fun to me. And W is right, and so are you, you need vaca's without the little ones. If you don't spend that time alone together, your R can become about raising the kids. My MC says if you do that, what happens when they grow up and leave? Then you and W have nothing left to do together??? Not that you are doing that stuff, I just know that a lot of couples basically turn into "just co-parents" when the kiddos are born and lose the boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic of the R. So a trip together would be fun/positive I think.....
