tomato,
hi and welcome to DB boards. Many are giving you excellent advice, wise to follow as they know more than we beginners.

Something is confusing me, after several posts back and forth. Posters are asking you for a few of the reasons your W wallked??? Why, OM, OP, sex, MLC, You? First thing you Must do is read Michele's books, have you or are you? Second you must accept and work to identify your part in this M breakdown. Seems to me you keep blaming Just your wife.
Ok, we keep trying to help if you wish. Sorry I am so blunt.
grid, lost


-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)