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boundaries. She would have to find another job with regular hours and some weekends off. My plan would be one weekend a month we would go away for the weekend, to another city or a B&B. Once or twice a month go out dancing together. I'd like to join a club that takes weekend rides and do that also.

mike
in away your W sounds so much like H, mine. H wants things for him to be different feel better, etc. Well Hello, you need to do something different (action) and no one can do this for you. I am so sick of listening to him go on about how terrible he feels. <YUCK!> MLC, they really do think about only their self and how terrible they feel or how terrible life has been to them. Honest even 3year olds don't whine as much
BTW, where have we all heard the advice to make things different, do something different, ACTION , and action words. Guess some of this DBing is starting to sink in.
Here is another website I picked up and really good. MarriageBuilders.com
check it out.
checked out your new thread. So what did you do for yourself this weekend? I nothing... about 5:39pm and am going to take dog out for a walk. Lord, I even feel guilty anymore because can't walk them all at once. LB look so sad when I leave with a dog.!! lol
grid, lost


-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)