(((B))) Yep, it's tough and very hurtful. It was insensitive of your W to even ask what's bothering you. She should have known. She probably does feel the guilt and probably trying to prove to herself that it's OK, especially since she and OM are going to church. This is very similar to what Bob Steinkemp did during his separation from his wife Charlyne. He wrote about this is his 2 books (available from rejoiceministries.org). The books are Prodigals Do Come Home and The Prodigal's Perspective .
