Took her for granted for sure and she claims I was passive aggressive and not emotionally available. I have made great strides to change all this through therapy and education but I am getting the "to little to late" comment. I feel like SH** because of it and never knew I was doing it. I must also add that she shut me down years ago with the way she spoke to which may have lead to this behavior. She has a horrible way of addressing/speaking to people. She is very, very smart and will sometimes come across as talking way down to you, she also has a massive temper and anger issues which can really shut you down.I do have many faults but don't feel, of course,that her decision to leave/break the family up are warranted. I am really hurting.