I still dont get it..probably never will..He obviously cares..loves his kids.appears to be ragged and broken..cant face me and I think he is still trying to run..run from the inevitable facing himself and god why cant they realize they are ruining everything in their lives? why are they so self destuctive?
Your H is depressed. He feels that life is passing him by. He feels like you and the kids don't understand him or are better off without him. He feels guilt for the mess he has made...for abandoning all of you...but he had to get away from what he thought was causing his unhappiness...and now he still isn't happy. It is a vicious cycle...a cycle that he has to break. You are doing well giving him his time and space. Just keep it going.
Did you ask your H about switching for Thursdays so you can play in the band? That would be great for you if you could get to do that.
That is so frustrating about your car. Nice that your H helped you get it started but scary thinking you could get stranded some place. What are you going to do?
Hope you are having a good weekend. I have so much to do so I better get away from this computer!
