Oh, and I think your husband needs to get a better divorce attorney. Any man who think he'll be better off financially after a divorce, is drinking some pretty serious Kool-Aid.
Choc.
Thanks, Choc. I think he saw an attorney just once for an hour, typical consulation, and they are friends, so probably spent half their time chatting. I think H also probably heard what he wanted to hear. It was right before he began the affair and I think he wanted the validation that it was OK to have the affair.
H has a lot of ideas that divorce is some wonderful thing: H will have more money; I'll meet someone wonderful after the divorce; the kids will be happy, etc. I guess it makes him feel better about the affair/divorce. The weird, ironic thing is when he was 14 and his parents divorced he was actually suicidal himself so deep down I think he knows that's not true. Karen43
