H and I own business together, still talking

[micoms]

Grid,

I think it's been on and off for a year and a half. The reason she left was I was following her, thinking she was meeting up with OM, she saw me and got mad. I do think it has gotten to PA. I could forgive it, I understand that A's are part of the MLC process. She said in a MC session that she thinks she's having a MLC, she doesn't know who she is, what she wants, has any outside interests or hobbies. MC thinks she probably had a traumatic event in her childhood or adolesence thats been repressed and is about to come to the surface.

I've tried to get her to go to see a doc about her constant sleeping, she denies anything is wrong. The sleeping just about all the time she's not working has gone on about 2yrs.

I could forgive the EA/PA, but there would be boundaries. She would have to find another job with regular hours and some weekends off. My plan would be one weekend a month we would go away for the weekend, to another city or a B&B. Once or twice a month go out dancing together. I'd like to join a club that takes weekend rides and do that also. Also find some type of hobby she likes to do and I'd do it with her also, something she likes to do not necessarily what I like to do.

Yes I started a new thread: Wife has filed, and on we go

Mike