I do want to add something to this thread because those reading it will understand.
Back in October 2005 and the months that followed, I was in counseling with the pastor of our church.
The first meeting he told me I had to let go and allow God to do his work. I wanted to have that little bit of control such as confronting OW and telling her to stay away from my H, amongst other things.
Then I would go back one month later and the pastor would say, "but are you allowing God to control this?"
It took me a long time to give it up and allow God to do his work.
It was difficult for me because I am human and felt I had to do something but of course I could not.
Once I finally gave it up, little things began to happen for the better and those babysteps were evidenced for awhile.
My advice: do not try and change things or get in the way. allow God to do HIS work in HIS own timing, not ours.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
