I am sorry for how things have gone for you BT...but you are cultivating the right attitude.

Change what you can.
Accept what you can't.
Have the wisdom to know the difference.

There is someone for everyone, and you are correct in thinking that there is a woman out there somewhere that will appreciate the gifts you have to give.

Chin up, pal!

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!