Hey guys, I am in a similar siutation and thought you could give me some advice.
My W is a WAW. Very head strong and now into doing her own thing. Since we separated, she has been off the rails. Spending money, travelling, dating, etc.
After 4 months, this has finally had an impact on our 7 year old D. When my D is with me, she lives with my parents. It is a very calm and loving environment. She trusts my mom completely. D confided in my mom that she has been crying at school over our separation and because her mom does not spend a lot of time with her. She leaves her with a nanny.