You are right, if a friend of mine were overwhelmed, I would do all I could to help. It just makes it difficult b/c my friends don't yell at me when they have a problem
I am trying to be patient on the physical stuff, too. I would be totally fine without sex right now, actually, if I could get real hugs and kisses, some kind of affection that shows me how he feels. I think my LL is physical touch, if that is a LL. That and affirming words, I need to hear ILY every day and it is hard when I don't. But he did say it at 4:30 this a.m. when he left. So baby steps in the right direction....
