First of all, HI HOPE!!!! Thanks for last night. Hope and I survived downtown St. Louis during Mardi Gras. She is one serious dude magnet. But she handles it with grace. lol We had a great time (at least I did), it was just what I needed. I drove downtown very heavy hearted, and drove home in a great mood.
OW's H met us downtown, Hope got to meet him. He is such a great guy. They (him and a friend) stayed with us about an hour and moved on. Glad he told me that OW was lurking downtown as well, Hope and I avoided the club she was at.
H texted me through the night and he actually beat me home. He was crying about how f'ed up his life is. I just listened. He was late to work yesterday (written up) and called in sick today. He is a serious mess. He slept in our bed last night (fell asleep there talking to me). He made it clear 2 things 1) he hasn't been with anyone else and 2) he wants me physically. I told him once "I will not share you anymore. I can't". He left it at that. I kept the babysitter for the morning. When he wakes up, he can send her home. He needs sleep.